Steve Grand (musician)

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Steve Grand
Also known asSteve Chatham, Steve Starchild
Born(1990-02-28) February 28, 1990 (age 24)
Lemont, Illinois
GenresPop, rock, country, Crossover
Occupation(s)Musician, singer-songwriter
InstrumentsVocals, piano, guitar
Years active2011–present
LabelsGrand Nation
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Steve Grand
Also known asSteve Chatham, Steve Starchild
Born(1990-02-28) February 28, 1990 (age 24)
Lemont, Illinois
GenresPop, rock, country, Crossover
Occupation(s)Musician, singer-songwriter
InstrumentsVocals, piano, guitar
Years active2011–present
LabelsGrand Nation

Steve Grand (born February 28, 1990)[1] is an American musician and singer-songwriter from Lemont, Illinois, a Chicago suburb.[2] He became an overnight internet celebrity and was acclaimed by some[3][4] to be the first openly gay male country musician to attract mainstream attention in the United States. The music video of his first hit "All-American Boy" went viral on YouTube in less than a week in July 2013.[5][6][7] This attention landed Grand on “Good Morning America,” CNN and other national media.[8][9] Buzzfeed ranked the video on its list of the “24 Most Brilliant Music Videos from 2013,” and Out magazine named Grand to its annual “Out100” list of the year’s most compelling LGBT people.[10][11] In addition to being a musician, Grand has become an active figure in the LGBT equality movement.[12][13][14]

Early life[edit]

Grand started writing music when he was 11 years old. By age 13, he had come to the realization that he was gay[15] and struggled to gain acceptance of his sexuality within his Catholic family and faith.[2] He came out to friends starting in eighth grade. When his parents learned of his homosexuality, they encouraged him to seek counseling that would last five years. While some have called his therapy conversion therapy, he has not. In an interview with Michael Musto of, Grand said: “I want to make it clear that it’s been misrepresented that I went through what most people know as conversion therapy. I saw a Christian therapist who, among many other beliefs, believed I’d be happier in a straight life. He didn’t shame me for being gay. Most of the focus, we weren’t even talking about my sexuality. But certainly his belief that I’d be living a happier life as a heterosexual was indeed harmful. In no way, shape, or form ... do I condone ex-gay therapy. I think it’s a horrible practice. There’s no scientific basis for it. A person’s sexuality is a part of who they are. And I certainly suffered for not having my sexuality affirmed.”[16]

After graduating from Lemont High School, Grand attended Belmont University in Nashville, Tennessee, for a year. He then returned to Chicago to enroll at the University of Illinois and later left to focus on his musical career.[5][17] Grand cites a wide range of musical influences, including: The Beatles, the Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, Neil Young, Bruce Springsteen, Elton John, Billy Joel, Blink‐182, Green Day, Taking Back Sunday, Brand New and Fall Out Boy. Grand told QVegas: “But it was Dad who got me started. He would listen to a song and tell stories about what each song meant to him: where he was in life, who he was dating, what car he was driving. He made me realize the lasting power of music -- how a great song can take you back to the moment you first heard it. From that point on, I knew that’s what I wanted to do in life, create something so real and beautiful that it stays with its listener forever.”[18]


Prior to launching his musical career, Grand modeled under a number of pseudonyms; he was a cover model for Australia's DNA magazine in 2011.[19] He played piano at four Chicago-area churches and at various clubs in Chicago, most notably The Joynt in downtown Chicago, until 2013.[17] He also performed cover songs, including hits by Lady Gaga, Bruno Mars, One Direction and Journey, and uploaded these to YouTube. However, Grand wanted to release original music.

On July 2, 2013, Grand uploaded a music video for his song "All-American Boy" to YouTube—producing it himself at a cost of US$7,000. The video almost immediately went viral. Just eight days later, All-American Boy had more than 1 million views.[5][20][21][22][23] The song, set against a backdrop of country roads, an American flag and friends around a campfire, tells the story of a man in love with a heterosexual male friend. Grand recorded the vocals in his parents’ basement and maxed out his credit card to self-fund the groundbreaking video. The video was directed and edited by award-winning[citation needed] Chicago filmmaker Jason Knade.

Although Grand has received mostly positive reaction to the song, some gay activists have criticized its content, with one stating that its message is that "Gay men drink too much, feel sorry for themselves, and come on to straight dudes when their girlfriends aren't around."[24] Writing for Slate, J. Bryan Lowder had an even harsher take on the video, describing it as "woefully out-of-tune with the times. It's like something out of a homo smut story from before Stonewall", and adding "this particular narrative of the tantalizing straight guy and lovesick queen is so hackneyed in gay culture as to be laughable."[25] Grand has said that he appreciates different perspectives regarding his work. In an interview with The New Civil Rights Movement, he also said: “When I made that video, I did not set out to make any statements about gay people other than what we share in common with our straight brothers and sisters — that sometimes you love someone you can’t have. I know that especially rings true for gay people who grow up in a heterosexual world.”[26]

Some media have also claimed that Grand is the first openly gay male country singer to exist at all, although this has been disputed.[4] Grand does not claim to be the first of his kind, and often talks with praise about the trailblazers who have come before him. Several gay male country musicians have toured gay bars and other venues for decades, beginning with Patrick Haggerty's band Lavender Country in 1972,[27] and two months before Grand's video hit, The New York Times profiled openly gay singer/songwriter Shane McAnally,[28] who has had charted songs as a vocalist in the past and is currently one of the most successful songwriters in the industry. Other openly gay or bisexual male vocalists who have had successful careers in the country music industry as songwriters or musicians have included Jimbeau Hinson, Drake Jensen, Mark Weigle, Brian Glenn,[29] and Shane Stevens.[30]

Openly lesbian country star Chely Wright lauded Grand as “brave” in remarks to Michael Musto of, saying: “This is uncharted territory, as you know. I came out after having been in the business for years. He’s trying to get into the business.”[16]

On July 18, 2013, Grand made his television debut, performing "All-American Boy" on Windy City Live.[31]

On September 6, 2013, Grand released "Stay"—the follow-up single to “All-American Boy.”[citation needed]

In addition to being a singer-songwriter and performer, Grand has become an active figure in the LGBT equality movement. In 2013, the same year in which he appeared on Out magazine’s “Out100” list of prominent LGBT people, he also appeared on Instinct Magazine’s cover as one of its "Leading Men". Grand has performed at Pride events around the nation — and has partnered with The Human Rights Campaign, The Anti-Violence Project, Bailey House, the GLSEN Respect Awards, Out & Equal Workplace Advocates and the March on Springfield for Marriage Equality. He has appeared at events alongside prominent guests such as Mariah Carey, Wentworth Miller, Jim Parsons, Perez Hilton, and Charli XCX, among others. Grand has received mention and support from other openly gay national figures such as *NSYNC’s Lance Bass, Chely Wright, Elton John and Edie Windsor.[citation needed]

In 2014, he was one of the performers at the opening ceremonies of WorldPride in Toronto, Ontario, Canada, alongside Melissa Etheridge, Deborah Cox and Tom Robinson.[32]



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  4. ^ a b Schonfeld, Zach (July 10, 2013). "We Should Stop Calling Steve Grand the First Openly Gay Male Country Star". The Atlantic. Retrieved July 11, 2013. 
  5. ^ a b c Lennox, Michael Cidoni (July 8, 2013). "Steve Grand's 'All-American Boy' Becomes A Gay-Themed Country Music Hit On YouTube". Huffington Post. Retrieved July 8, 2013. 
  6. ^ Gupta, Prachi (July 8, 2013). "Steve Grand hailed as first openly gay male country singer with YouTube hit". Salon. Retrieved July 8, 2013. 
  7. ^ "Gay-Themed Music Video a YouTube Hit". Time Magazine. July 8, 2013. Retrieved July 8, 2013. 
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  10. ^ Perpetua, Matthew. "Buzzfeed: 24 Of The Most Brilliant Music Videos From 2013". Retrieved December 11, 2013. 
  11. ^ "Out100: Steve Grand". Out Magazine. November 5, 2013. 
  12. ^ Nichols, James (October 11, 2013). "Steve Grand, Gay 'All-American Boy' Singer, Performs At New York's Bailey House Benefit". Huffington Post. 
  13. ^ "The VitalVOICE: Steve Grand to Perform at March on Springfield". 
  14. ^ "Openly Gay Record Artist, Songwriter & YouTube Sensation Steve Grand to Perform His Hit Single "All American Boy" at GLSEN Respect Awards - Los Angeles". October 4, 2013. 
  15. ^ All-American Boy’ Becomes A Gay Themed Country Music Hit On YouTube. Interview with Roz and Mocha. July 11, 2013. Roz and Mocha Show. Kiss 92.5. Retrieved July 11, 2013. 
  16. ^ a b Musto, Michael (October 28, 2013). "Musto! The Musical! Country Singer Steve Grand: On Gayness, the Church, and Lusting For Straights". 
  17. ^ a b "Our First Country Gay Music Video: Steve Grand – All American Boy". The Center Orlando. July 5, 2013. Retrieved July 8, 2013. 
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  20. ^ Inawat, Ron Matthew (July 11, 2013). "Chicago's gay country 'All-American Boy' Steve Grand hits 1m views". Chicago Pride. Retrieved July 11, 2013. 
  21. ^ Benjamin, Jeff (July 9, 2013). "Meet Gay Country Star Steve Grand". Fuse. Retrieved July 9, 2013. 
  22. ^ Connelly, Chris (July 9, 2013). "Gay Country Singer Adjusts to Newfound Web Fame". ABC News Good Morning America. Retrieved July 9, 2013. 
  23. ^ Shamberger, Ebony (July 8, 2013). "Steve Grand called first openly gay country singer after video release". Indianapolis Star. Retrieved July 9, 2013. 
  24. ^ King, Mark S. (July 8, 2013). "Gay country singer's video portrays gay men as sad, predatory drunks". Retrieved July 20, 2013. 
  25. ^ Lowder, J. Bryan (July 10, 2013). "This Is Not the First Openly Gay Male Country Star. At Least I Hope Not.". Slate. Retrieved July 24, 2013. 
  26. ^ Sala, Sean (October 28, 2013). "‘All American Boy’ Singer, Songwriter Steve Grand Is Turning Heads And Minds". The New Civil Rights Movement. com. 
  27. ^ Dickinson, Chris (2000). "Country Undetectable: Gay Artists in Country Music". Journal of Country Music XXI (1): 28–39. Retrieved 4 August 2009. 
  28. ^ "Out and Riding High in Nashville". The New York Times, May 24, 2013.
  29. ^ "Brian Glenn steps out on his own with ‘Original Intent’ | Out & About Nashville". Retrieved 2013-08-12. 
  30. ^ Halterman, Jim (2011-11-18). "Shane Stevens on "Girls Who Like Boys"... Who Like Jesus". Retrieved 2013-08-12. 
  31. ^ Geoffroy, Kyler (July 18, 2013). "Steve Grand's Slow Rendition of "All-American Boy" Will Melt Your Heart". Retrieved July 22, 2013. 
  32. ^ "Rise Up" the theme as WorldPride 2014 arrives. Toronto Star, June 19, 2014.

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