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Cunnilingus is an oral sex act performed on a female. It involves the use by a sex partner of the mouth, lips and tongue to stimulate the female's clitoris, vulva, or vagina. A female may receive cunnilingus as part of foreplay before sexual intercourse, or as intercourse.
As in all human sexual behavior, both the techniques used in cunnilingus and an individual's response to them are varied.
The clitoris is the most sexually sensitive erogenous zone for most women, but may be too sensitive to comfortably stimulate at times, especially in early stages of arousal. Author Shere Hite notes in The Hite Report that most women achieve orgasm easily from clitoral stimulation as part of cunnilingus or some other form of direct clitoral stimulation. Some sex manuals recommend beginning with a gentler, less focused stimulation of the labia and the whole genital area. The tip, blade, or underside of the tongue may be used, as can the nose, chin, teeth and lips. Movements can be slow or fast, regular or erratic, firm or soft, according to the participants' preferences. The tongue can be inserted into the vagina, either stiffened or moving. The performing partner may also hum to produce vibration. This act is better known as 'The Val Kilmer'.
Cunnilingus may be accompanied by the insertion of finger(s) or a sex toy into the vagina, which allows for the simultaneous stimulation of the g-spot, and/or into the anus.
The term is derived from the Latin words for the vulva (cunnus) and tongue (lingua).
There are several positions for cunnilingus:
- Missionary – the female lies on her back, with her legs spread, pulled up to her chest, on her partner or raised.
- Doggy style – the female crouches on all fours, while her partner performs oral sex from behind.
- Standing – the female stands facing her partner, who is either sitting or on the knees. However, in this position the clitoris is more difficult to reach and stimulate, and the female may have difficulty maintaining her balance when she is reaching orgasm because her legs quiver and shake.
- Sitting – the female sits on a chair or uses some other support.
- Mutual stimulation – see the 69 position.
- Face-sitting – the female sits on or above the partner's face. In this position the female has more control over her body movements and can guide her partner or auto-stimulate against the partner's face.
There are numerous slang terms for cunnilingus, including "DATY" (for "dining at the Y"), "drinking from the furry cup" "carpet munching", and "muff-diving". It is also commonly called "eating someone out", "eating pussy" or "licking someone out." Several common slang terms used are "giving lip", "lip service", or "tipping the velvet", an expression that novelist Sarah Waters claims to have "plucked from the relative obscurity of Victorian porn". Older erotic literature refers to it as "gamahuching", with some variation in the spelling.
A person who performs cunnilingus may be referred to as a "cunnilinguist", and the phrase "cunning linguist" is also often used as a pun, implying oral skill of a different sort.
Melanie Marcus (Michelle Clunie), a lesbian character from the American TV series Queer as folk, once referred to it when calling herself a 'cunt lapper.' In blues and soul music, the term "licking candy" is often used, as in Marvin Sease's 1987 jukebox hit "Candy Licker."
Cultural, spiritual, and religious significance
Although not spoken of openly in Western society until recently, cunnilingus is accorded a revered place in Taoism. This is because the practice was believed to achieve longevity, and the loss of semen, vaginal, and other bodily liquids is believed to bring about a corresponding loss of vitality. Conversely, by either semen retention or ingesting the secretions from the vagina, a male or female can conserve and increase his/her ch'i, or original vital breath. In Taoism:
The Great Medicine of the Three Mountain Peaks is to be found in the body of the woman and is composed of three juices, or essences: one from the woman's mouth, another from her breasts, and the third, the most powerful, from the Grotto of the White Tiger, which is at the Peak of the Purple Mushroom (the mons veneris).
— Octavio Paz. Conjunctions and Disjunctions. trans. Helen R. Lane. 1975. (London: Wildwood House, 1969) p. 97.
According to Philip Rawson (in Paz, p. 97), these half-poetic, half-medicinal metaphors explain the popularity of cunnilingus among people: "The practice was an excellent method of imbibing the precious feminine fluid" (Paz, p. 97). But the Taoist ideal is not just about the male being enriched by female secretions; the female also benefits from her communion with the male, a feature that has led the sinologist, Kristofer Schipper, to denounce the ancient handbooks on the "Art of the Bedroom" as embracing a "kind of glorified male vampirism" that is not truly Taoist at all. Ideally, by mingling the male and female liquids the Taoist aims to reconcile opposites and to recapture the mythical time that existed before the division of the sexes, the primordial time of the original ch'i.
The religious historian Mircea Eliade speaks of a similar desire to transcend old age and death, and achieve a state of nirvana, in the Hindu practice of Tantric yoga. In Tantric yoga, the same emphasis is placed on the retention and absorption of vital liquids and Sanskrit texts describe how the male semen must not be emitted if the yogi is to avoid falling under law of time and death.
Song of Songs
Verse 7:3 (verse 7:2 in the King James Version of The Song of Solomon) of the Biblical Song of Songs may contain a veiled reference to cunnilingus, although many translators render the key term "navel." The King James version renders the line, "Thy navel is like a round goblet, which wanteth not liquor". (KJV)  An alternate translation could read as follows: "Your vulva is a rounded crater, never lacking mixed wine". ( הפות שלך היא מכתש מעוגל, לא חסר יין מעורבב)
The context, moving up from her sandals to her vulva to her belly to her breasts, however, makes the meaning of "vulva" (Heb. shor), as derived from an Aramaic word meaning "secret place", all but conclusive. In many Christian and Jewish traditions the erotic intimacy between the bride and groom described in the Song of Songs is given spiritual significance.
Chlamydia, human papillomavirus (HPV), gonorrhea, herpes, hepatitis (multiple strains), and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) — including HIV — can be transmitted through oral sex. The documented risk of HIV transmission through cunnilingus is considered to be extremely small, and far lower than that associated with fellatio, vaginal or anal sex. There have only ever been 2 documented cases of HIV transmission through cunnilingus. If the receiving partner has wounds or open sores on her genitals, or if the giving partner has wounds or open sores on or in his or her mouth, or bleeding gums, this poses an increased risk of STD transmission. Brushing the teeth, flossing, undergoing dental work, or eating crunchy foods such as potato chips relatively soon before or after performing cunnilingus can also increase the risk of disease transmission, because all of these activities can cause small scratches in the lining of the mouth. These wounds, even when they are microscopic, increase the chances of contracting STDs that can be transmitted orally under these conditions. Such contact can also lead to more mundane infections from common bacteria and viruses found in, around, and secreted from the genital regions.
In 2005, a research study at the College of Malmö in Sweden suggested that performing unprotected oral sex on a person infected with HPV might increase the risk of oral cancer. The study found that 36% of the cancer patients had HPV compared to only 1 percent of the healthy control group.
Another recent study in the New England Journal of Medicine suggests a correlation between oral sex and throat cancer. It is believed that this is due to the transmission of human papillomavirus (HPV) because this virus has been implicated in the majority of cervical cancers. The study concludes that people who had one to five oral sex partners in their lifetime had approximately a doubled risk of throat cancer compared with those who never engaged in this activity, and those with more than five oral-sex partners had a 250% increased risk.
- "Ritual public cunnilingus takes place at the present time (1966) nightly -- especially Saturday nights -- across the border from San Diego, California, in Tijuana, Mexico, at a public night club with open access from the street, known to American students and sailors as the Blue Fox, hundreds being urged and shamed into partaking of this ritual communion -- it can hardly be called anything else -- at the tables circling the stage on which the girl strip teasers stand offering themselves."
- CunninLynguists are a well known American hip-hop which use the play on words as their title.
- In Tomorrow Never Dies, James Bond is called a "cunning linguist" over the phone by Moneypenny. The term is a play on words, aided by the fact that Bond was engaged in sexual activity at the time of the call.
- Similarly Austin Powers In Goldmember featured Austin telling Foxy Cleopatra: "You may be a cunning linguist, but I am a master debater", playing both on "cunnilingus" and "masturbation".
- Napoleon referred, it would seem, to cunnilingus in letters to Joséphine early in his career. He said, "I kiss your heart, and then a little lower, and then much lower still."
- A fatal air embolism caused by cunnilingus was used as the cause of death in one episode of the popular German television series Der letzte Zeuge, it is also referenced multiple times in Chuck Palahniuk's novel Choke, as well as in one short crime story called Blowjob by Thea Dorn.
- In The Sopranos episode "Boca", cunnilingus plays a major plot line.
- In the second episode of the third season of Showtime's series The Tudors, Sir Francis Bryan asks Lady (formerly Princess) Mary if she likes games, going on to tell her that there is a new one at court that she may enjoy: cunnilingus.
- An innuendos reference to it is made in the Cow and Chicken episode "Buffalo Gals" which was one of the reasons for the episode being banned from television in the United States after its first airing.
- In the Deep Purple song Knocking At Your Back Door there is a reference to "put her on the hit list of a common cunning linguist, a master of many tongues."
- A Saturday Night Live skit centers on a returning soldier named Colonel Angus, a play on cunnilingus.
- A scene in Stanley Kubrick's Spartacus features Crassus (Laurence Olivier) talking to Antoninus (Tony Curtis) about "eating oysters", presumably referring to cunnilingus.
- The opening scene of the 2011 movie The Sitter includes cunnilingus.
- One scene in the 2010 movie Black Swan involves Lily (Mila Kunis) performing cunnilingus on Nina Sayers (Natalie Portman).
- In the third episode of the second season of HBO's Sex and the City, a man named Mitch Sailor, who is known as 'Mr. Pussy' because of his talent at cunnilingus, goes down several times on Charlotte York Goldenblatt (Kristin Davis) .
- In episode 1.05 of The L Word, Jennifer Schecter's boyfriend Tim walks in on her and a woman named Marina, who at the time is pleasuring Jenny by sitting between her legs .
- In the Cabaret revival, Alan Cumming slips in a line when describing an American girl as a "very cunning linguist. As all of his references are made to inspire orgy-esque sex, this line is definitely a reference.
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